My dad owes over 20,000 dollars in child support.
I am now 20 years old and my brother is still underage.
We need a new place to move and my mom makes around 1,200 a month, so my dad offered my mom a deal. His deal is to remove child support off of him and he'll help every month with the rent.
I don't know if this is a good idea, but we really need to move, we don't want to but we have until this week to move.
There are 2 problems.
We don't trust my dad.
And the second one is my mom doesn't have the time to be going to court and doing every that because she works and asked me if I can go and receive her the documents but I don't what to do.
I think she wants to drop the child support debt because she is really desperate to receive help to support us. As of now, I am a full time student and I can't really help my mom with the rent and only work part time, but that isn't enough, I help pay for bills..
So overall, the question is can I be the one to go to court to drop the child support issue with my dad because my mom doesn't have the time, or is there a paper I can receive my mom to fill out and.. IDK do something?
i forgot to mention that my dad doesnt pay child support and he changed his identity illegally and its difficult to prove my dad is someone else... trust me my dad will never pay
(if my dad was below his real name the FBI would be after him.. so he stole his cousins identity and has been using it since 2000)
btw, its even more difficult because my parents weren't born in this country and are not citizens, not even residents..
What can i do to take action? After reading some of the responses because I did ask the question over, i now have a new question, I want my dad to start paying, and I know where he lives.
I also have another question. Even though my mom isn't a citizen, can I apply for housing? We really need help and my mom can't work so many hours, she is getting old and has a heart condition, the last time she had cardiac arrest was probably 6 years ago.
So anyway, how can I receive help from child support service to receive my dad to pay, because he hasn't paid ANYTHING since I was 13. And can i qualify for housing?
we have also tried some program that will help us find him because he kept moving and sending letters back to child support saying that he didn't live there